Problems make up our day to day life and they are something we have to go through all the time. For example you just solved a problem, you decide whether to click on my blog, or not to-wait was that maybe a decision and if so, what is the difference between problems and decisions. Maybe it’s just a question of mindset.
But then comes that one problem where you get stuck and you think FUCK I can try everthing and anything I want and nothing seems to help, all I want is to get rid of it! Maybe it’s something in your past that has happened, or something that you set goals to high for, something you imagined would be different or even something you focus on to much. We all know we have this ONE thing in our lives, that almost seems unsolvable and often we don’t want to admit it. Until you come to that point where we are so fed up with it, you are willing to give anything to solve it. You are unhappy, stressed, whatever it may you don’t want to go on like this and change needs to come fast before things get even worse.
I am by no means an expert but what I think I can say, relatively certainly, Is that you need to be ready to talk, to admit it to yourslef. Once you have accepted that you can move on and you have a much higher chance of reaching your goal.
Some tips you could use;
START SMALL AND ACHIEVE, this is the key to motivation and success, if you start to big you wouldn’t be able to achieve it and that is setting you up for failure. So start with some small goals that you have to be able to achieve and work up from there.
FIND OUT WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU, try different things and see what is for you. While you are at it don’t patch up the problem or challenge, get to the bottom of it! Maybe talking to someone you trust is a start, they could help you set goals and reach them, as well as add motivation.
I promise you if you are ready, you will find a solution and it will take courage and preservation, but you have all of our support. We need to stick together and help each other out, in the end we are not against each other and remember no problem is dumm,we all have them.